Towards intercultural pastoral care

This dissertation by Ward Biemans SJ (* 1971) reports on five sub-studies on pastoral accompaniment and integration processes of Catholic migrant couples and intercultural couples, living in the Netherlands, before and after their wedding. The first is a literature study, which shows a sustainable beneficial effect of Marriage and Relationship Education (MRE) on relationship quality. A second, quantitative survey investigates the relationships between marriage preparation, pastoral accompaniment and relationship quality. Results show that overall, migrant couples and intercultural couples (n=223) appreciate a more intensive, professional, and welcoming MRE and pastoral accompaniment after marriage. It is also concluded that seeking reconciliation after a conflict (r=0.361) and experiencing forgiveness from one’s spouse (r=0.188) are significantly associated with a higher perceived relationship quality. Thirdly, twelve semi-structured indepth interviews with migrant and intercultural couples have been held. Results show that patterns of cultural transition (CT) are more common than patterns of cultural defence (CD) or intercultural transition (IT). From three categories of values, faith values have been mentioned most often (n=242), followed by family values (n=132) and societal values (n=87). Faith is a value that can bridge cultural differences between the host and home country. Fourthly, interviewees have been asked to reflect on experiences with the sacrament of Reconciliation. Finally, by means of a SWOT-analysis, eleven interviews with pastoral caregivers and diocesan staff members, as well as four written responses have been analysed. Four opportunities for further development of pastoral practices are discussed: intercultural pastoral care; intercultural communication; promoting well-being and community building. Both migrant and native church communities could profit when these pastoral practices are implemented.